Women were designed by God and given special abilities to captivate the heart of man. Don’t underestimate or overestimate who you are and what your real need for a man is. Women have power to build up a man or to bring him down lower than dirt. We must not be afraid to tell well-meaning friends what works for our situation. Unless you are called to be a nun, there is no need to be dressed in a long white robe twenty-four hours a day—seven days a week.