Barbara Bailey authored a short story "Unpleasant Business" after the passing of her husband. She wanted to share tips for easing frustrations and obstacles for transitioning to life as a widow or widower. She noted that while the upper class typically is well funded and plans well in advance, and underserved people are supported with government and charity resources, but today's American middle-class senior women in particular faced unique challenges. She shares personal accounts of her transition, suggestions for preparation in advance for couples, and a useful checklist of critical data and details to share with your partner before the inevitable ... until death do us part.