You want to have a good Christmas. Really, you do. But every year, something steals your joy. Could that something be you?

At Christmas, there's lots of talk about comfort and joy...but the reality of the season is often less than jolly. The holidays have a way of underscoring grief, magnifying divisions, and creating chaos in the fragile balance of our busy lives.

Forget peace on earth - you just want some peace at your dinner table.

Is there anything you can do to make Christmas all you wish it could be?