Considerations on the approach to being able to have glimmers with the opposite sex through even ironic thoughts and searches trying to be successful at least once in a while and being able to say "I did it" The ways of behaving and the things to avoid, the constant dangers and risks, comparisons and examples to imitate; passion is the tool that must guide us because the best results are built and determined with the desire that is within us; the techniques to seduce, the times of love, our presentation and the ever-present desire to approach, the final result that must always be clearly outlined inside our heads because it is the ultimate goal to reach.