“Never acknowledge the fact that you’re a girl, and take pride when your
guy friends say, ‘You’re one of the guys.’ Tell yourself, ‘I am one of the
guys,’ even though, in the back of your mind, a little voice says, ‘But you’ve
got girl parts.’” – Birdie, in “How to Be a Man”
A girl whose
self-worth revolves around masculinity, a bartender who loses her sense of
safety, a woman who compares men to plants, and a boy who shoots his cranked-out
father. These are a few of the hard-scrabble characters in Tamara Linse’s debut
short story collection, How to Be a Man.
Set in contemporary Wyoming—the myth of the West taking its toll—these stories
reveal the lives of tough-minded girls and boys, self-reliant women and men,
struggling to break out of their lonely lives and the emotional havoc of their
families to make a connection, to build a life despite the odds. How to Be a Man falls within the
traditions of Maile Meloy, Tom McGuane, and Annie Proulx.