Women grow up on fairy tales and weave their love and life stories around Prince Charmings, passionate love and languorous kisses ending in happily-ever-afters. But nothing prepares them for the real world, the disillusionment and complications of modern-day relationships.

When Amrita Sharma finds more and more women friends sharing their relationship secrets with her—their fears and deepest insecurities, their petty squabbles and extra-marital affairs—she realizes that their problems are vast and varied. And, more often than not, the women are to be blamed: When in love, even strong-willed, independent women become emotional fools.

Candid, wise and brutally honest—from telling us how to read the early signs of a failing relationship to friendly tips on finding the right guy—What Did I Ever See in Him is the modern woman’s guide to having the perfect love life.

A modern womans guide to having a perfect love life